Real Life Stories - November 2019

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From Lisa R:

My name is Lisa and my husband of 12 years is Tom. This is a big THANK YOU to your website for helping us to discover a Female Led relationship style that worked for us. Tom is 41 and works as a Rep for a pharmaceutical company while I teach grade 6. We have two beautiful daughters that are 11 and 8 and live a very comfortable life in a suburb of Buffalo.

Our lives changed for good 2 years ago when I took control of our marriage for the betterment of all concerned. I am not a prude or inexperienced sexually but I was shocked 5 years ago when I discovered Tom visited BDSM sites on the internet. I confronted him and he promised to never do it again but it continued to occur every 5 or 6 months from then on. In addition, our once wonderful sex life was down to a few times a month and then to a few times a year. I felt my life spinning out of control but I loved him and our kids so I knew we had to make changes to stay together.