Real Stories - November 2021

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So, what has all of this taught us? I think that one thing it has taught me is that if we’re to sustain this on a long-term basis we need to be genuine, to be ourselves and “keep it real”. We do not practice D/s intensely on a 24/7全天 — all day and every day basis, Alison says this would be too exhausting, and it’s just not us. We can’t pretend to be who we’re not, even if my fantasies at one time envisioned us developing into strict dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman and submissive顺从 — willing to obey house-boy. Although I’ve always been sexually submissive顺从 — willing to obey, I have a fairly extrovert personality and I think my wife missed my sense of humor when I behaved submissively and (it has to be said) somewhat pathetically before. Also, my wife is sweet, kind and honest as the day is long. Adopting a dominant persona is not something that she leans towards naturally. In the beginning I think she had to psych herself up for a discipline session. However, now she is truly awesome, and I’m the apprehensive one before the session begins knowing what she’s capable of.