Real Stories - November 2021

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I’m a fairly strong character at work; I have a responsible job in senior management. Again this makes it difficult to pretend to be someone I’m not. I have however changed my outlook at work through all of this. I think I’m more in touch with the feelings of my staff now, I listen more, I’m more tolerant and I’m certainly more courteous to female colleagues. And, I can see some of my male colleagues are prime candidates for a submissive顺从 — willing to obey lifestyle [very much up to them of course, I wouldn’t dare mention this to anyone]. I was intrigued by your answer to the question on whether D/s is a “class” thing in your December Q&A, in my case submissive顺从 — willing to obey feelings were definitely triggered by dominant women when I was young. I remember I craved their company (preferring this to my child-hood friends), I was completely spell-bound by them.

Elise, thank you for your level-headed advice given freely in answers to other correspondents. I can testify from experience that your views and opinions are absolutely spot-on in terms of how a submissive顺从 — willing to obey man should behave to woo his wife’s dominant side.