Real Stories - November 2021

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Dear Elise, I think your site is absolutely wonderful. I often ponder just what an impact you must be having world-wide. I write to describe our path to the happiness that we presently enjoy and how your teachings have changed our lives. I’d love it if you would publish this on your site, if it will help your mission in some small way. However, because I was thoughtless and stupid, things have not gone smoothly for us. Perhaps our story will be a salutary lesson to other husbands who would wish to introduce their wives to this lifestyle and then think they can continue to influence things.

I have had sexually submissive顺从 — willing to obey feelings for many years (since before I had any real sexual encounters in fact). My earliest fantasies involved dominant women I knew (in particular a Teacher and a Youth Group Leader) and usually involved me being punished with a leather strap or taws as this was still used regularly in Scottish schools at that time. I kept these feelings hidden from everyone as I was deeply ashamed, although I found them way more exciting when masturbating compared to what I’d now describe as “vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink” sexual fantasies.