Real Life Stories - New Entries for November 2002

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This arrangement has totally given me the upper hand. My husband is so pussy阴部 — the vulva whipped and has become an expert pussy阴部 — the vulva eater. He does most of the housework and his paycheck belongs to me. I make all decisions. I love dominating him and controlling him. He is also very happy. He adores me and is totally dependent on me. I am afraid we will lose some of this once I permit intercourse in our sex life.

Elise, I wanted to share this after reading the story by Evie. I am in no way as abusive or rough with my husband as she is, although we love having Leather sex. But it is possible to have such a marriage as she desires. I never set out for such a relationship. It just kind of happened, as this is how my sexuality developed. I understand where she is coming from. Why is it that women, like Evie and I, desire to keep our husbands virgins? Where does this fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing and desire come from? I love it but I still do not understand it. Thanks for your response.

Elise's Response:

Thanks for sharing your story. I would imagine that your desire (it is not really a fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing by the true definition of the word) comes from your previously dormant dominant nature. Dating this younger man (a twenty year old boy in your eyes) placed you in the dominant role with a man and this interaction released your dominant desires and true nature. It found its expression in your mind in the form of sexual excitement by being an experienced woman in the dominant role with an inexperienced man.