Real Life Stories - November 2008

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Over the meal he told me that he had always admired me and that he found me very attractive (despite my being more than 20 years older than him) and I wondered what was coming next! He then shocked me by telling me that he had always considered me to be dominant and controlling (I had never looked at myself in that way) and that he had had a desire for years to submit to me and become my personal servant! He wanted to wash, clean, iron and cook for me!

I’m afraid that I told him I had never heard anything so ridiculous in my life. He was, naturally, extremely embarrassed and kept apologising and asking my forgiveness. I told him that the matter was closed and that I would not hold it against him in the future and he took me home.

Then something weird happened – I found I could not stop thinking about what he had said. It just kept going through my mind. I also realised that it had taken some sort of mad courage for him to admit his feelings to me in this way. I decided I couldn’t leave it like this, so I called him and asked him to come to the house so that we could clear up any misunderstandings and get our normal relationship back on track. At least that was the idea!