Real Life Stories - Entries for October 2010 (Best of Elise)

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Some would say that a denial period of 3-5 weeks is harsh and would demand a tremendous willpower. No problem. I have that willpower, and if he can’t stand it, he only has to meet my needs with more perfection. Simple, isn’t it?

By the way I took more advantaged of the situation: Now he is responsible for all household chores. He cleans, he cooks, he does the dishes, he does vacuuming, - you name it. It’s good to be the Queen.

Elise’s Response:

It is good to be a Queen indeed. Orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax denial is a powerful weapon and when used correctly, men will jump through hoops to obtain that precious sexual release. What adds to your husband’s denial is the sexual frustration he feels each time he must orally service you. This no doubt arouses him and takes him to the brink, only to be denied.

What you have successfully done is you have channeled his sexual energy into other endeavors of servitude, such as doing housework. You have made the mundane tasks of life (cooking, cleaning, etc) into exciting FemDom女性支配 — female domination play for your husband. He now equates these tasks as a kind of sexual foreplay. He might not always feel like doing them but when he sees and feels his chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device, he knows that you are dominating him and it adds sexual excitement to the tasks you assign.