Library Elise Sutton

Real Life Stories - Entries for October 2012

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Dear Elise, I love your site - I learn so much from you and your readers. I'm 38 and have been married to my husband, Allen, for 9 years. Allen confessed an interest in female domination before we married and I agreed to try it out. It was play at first, with light spankings and him waiting on me on the weekends, but is has continued to evolve into a permanent situation - we're more of a lifestyle female supremacy couple now. Chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm is such an effective tool for ensuring male obedience and compliance!

I have wanted to share my experiences with objectifying my husband. Allen has always expressed an interest in Objectification, telling me how excited he was by the idea of being my table or footstool. I can't say that I shared the interest - it sounded so ho-hum to me - and I only agreed to try it about a year ago. I started off by using him as a footstool, and while I enjoyed the humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose aspect, it did at first strike me as boring.

But then a funny thing happened. I decided to read a book one day and thought that Allen had been such a good boy that I would reward him by resting my feet on him. After a while I realized that I had forgotten that he was there, or to be more precise, I had forgotten that the thing under my feet was my husband! I realized this after I had shifted my feet (fairly roughly I might add) and thought to myself "I need to move this footstool - it's too close".