Real Life Stories - Female Domination and the Professional Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman

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My wife is a very quiet and peaceful woman, and part of her reluctance to embrace female dominance may be her aversion to the sexually violent and aggressive imagery that sometimes comes with Female Dominant literature and web sites. For example, a flogger多尾鞭 — a whip with many tails is often part of the loving games of D/s, but for the uninitiated it is a terrifying and totally negative instrument. I think it is also hard for her to understand how putting a man in a submissive顺从 — willing to obey role could induce joy in him, and rewards for her. The idea of bruising a husbands ego as well as his skin, cuts across a lifetime of training about "proper womanly behavior" Female supremacy is in large part a sexual exploration, and many women are reluctant to take control of their sexual lives. Frankly, it scares them. That pretty much describes our condition I am fairly far along the track of accepting female superiority, but my wife has not left the starting blocks.

Elise, this I think is your greatest challenge. Submissive顺从 — willing to obey men are everywhere and clamoring for this new reality. We have "bought in". Most women, on the other hand, are not as tuned into this lifestyle and when exposed many have a visceral response that is strongly negative. Women need a sensitive non-aggressive, non-violent hand to guide them toward this lifestyle, and in my case, the husband's hand was not good enough.