Working Girl: Questions about the Professional Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman

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A. It is very common for a submissive顺从 — willing to obey man to fall for his professional Dominant. She is touching areas within you that no woman has before. I had many men confess to me that they had strong feeling for me when I would be performing my psychoanalysis on them. It is very flattering and I am sure that your professional Dominant wouldn't mind hearing you admit your feelings to her.

Just be prepared to hear her tell you that she doesn't date clients or that she is already in a relationship with a man. Some Dominants will agree to go on some dates with their clients. Dinner and a play or concert wouldn't be out of the question, but don't get your hopes up that it will ever develop into anything more than a friendship.

The best advice I can give you is to date out-going and aggressive women with the hopes of introducing them to this lifestyle. If you do find someone, be patient and don't expect her to be as experienced as your professional Dominant. It may take her years to develop the skills of your Dominant. In the mean time, continue seeing your professional Dominant and enjoy your time with her. It's not as fulfilling as a relationship, but it's better than having no one and only fantasizing about it. If she agrees to have an occasional dinner with you before you "play", that may go a long ways toward fulfilling your social needs until you find someone of your own.