Real Life Stories - September 2014

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I may not be as harsh as some of your contributors. I love John and have no desire to break him as many dominant women do. I do not wish to sissify him, cuckold绿帽男 — a man whose wife has other lovers him or to penetrate him with a strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness. I value his opinions and judgement as a wise and cleaver man who loves and cares for his wife and family. The punishments only take place when the children are at their grandparents and as far as everyone else is concerned, we are the perfect couple with a happy marriage.

Elise, my reason for writing to you is in the hope that my story may encourage other reluctant women to give it a go. I discovered your site some time ago and was horrified at what some women do to their husbands. That really put me off for a long time but I must say that my curiosity kept me coming back to read more. I only hope that my story can be proof that being a dominant woman in a FD relationship is exactly what you want it to be. It doesn't mean being an evil man hater, clad in leather (unless that is what you want it to be). You set the limits, you decide where, when and how.

The last two years have been the most fulfilling of my married life. We still have a normal sex life and we still argue and disagree as any other couple. I would not want for us to become too stale. My life has been enriched beyond measure and I encourage all women to start their journey of discovery. It is your attitude that will make him submit, not the clothes and props.