Real Life Stories - September 2004

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Our kids, of course, have seen the transformation in the way their father acts around the house. However, I do not believe they know of his sexual transformation. As long as my husband is the submissive顺从 — willing to obey in our home, I will never allow him to put his penis阴茎 — the male sex organ inside my pussy阴部 — the vulva or my mouth again. But I am unsure how far to take this. I want Steven to purchase his own panties. I want to take a lover, someone else to whom I can be dominant. Could I do this in the open? How will my kids, our friends, and especially my family (my mother is a Latina and old-fashioned) react? On the other hand, I am becoming tired of hiding who we are under the covers all the time.

Thank you so much, again, Elise, for the wonderful forum you have provided. It feels so good to be able to communicate about these topics.

Elise’s Response:

No need to change a thing. Why come out in the open to a society that will not fully understand? It is wise to keep your lifestyle private. It sounds like you are doing a wonderful job in training your husband. Continue to train him behind closed doors so he will be submissive顺从 — willing to obey and obedient to you both inside and outside the bedroom.