FemDom女性支配 — female domination and Sex: Questions about Human Sexuality

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Interestingly I do know my wife's ex-husband was a really domineering, macho creep who really tried to keep her under his thumb and fancied himself as a real love machine with the ladies. So, eventually she cut him off completely as far as sex was concerned. I have always treated her with respect and allowed her to be herself. About every 6 weeks or so she does seem to get extremely horny and she loves me to orally service her, both her ass臀部 — the buttocks and her pussy阴部 — the vulva. Afterward, she will mount me and screw me until I climax but she seems bored as if she is only doing her wifely duty. After we are done, she grows cold again about sex for another six weeks or longer. Any advice?

A. It is difficult to give advice or an analysis without talking with your wife. However, it has been my experience that women become cold to sex after marriage for two primary reasons. A lack of romance or a lack of sexual excitement. Most women need romance and foreplay before sex and there are usually plenty of these during the dating phase of a relationship but not enough after marriage. Men tend to take women for granted after marriage and the mundane things of life tend to occupy a woman's time. The general stress of life can interfere with a woman's sexuality. This is especially true when children come along. A woman needs to be romanced. Most women do not like to just jump in the sack for a quickie. Unfortunately, for most marriages that is what sex becomes.