Power Exchange in the Bedroom: Questions about Strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness Play

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The penis阴茎 — the male sex organ is predominantly accepted as the symbol of masculinity and manhood and so when I am being taken with one, the aura of male dominance is also in the back of my mind. My Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner is very beautiful and Feminine, but when She does this to me I don't always feel overwhelmed by Her Feminine power. The thought that keeps creeping into my mind is "Why does She need the male organ to dominate another male?"

It is Her Female powers that force me to submit to Her completely. But knowing that She is simulating a male-like form is sometimes a reversal to what I would like to experience when being dominated. Sometimes to my horror I even imagine a man in place of my Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner taking me from behind. I have no homosexual tendencies but the symbolic nature of a penis阴茎 — the male sex organ is so ingrained in my mind that I often can't let go of the thought of anything else behind it but another man.

Elise, how can I get past this? I am not allowed to question the authority of my Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner and so I am afraid to tell Her about this. I want Her to continue to enjoy Her activities as She always has. But I would like to know why Women like to assume such a masculine form by wearing a strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness? How do I remove this connection in my mind between the penis阴茎 — the male sex organ and masculinity?