Power Exchange in the Bedroom: Questions about Strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness Play

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While he was gone, I looked at his porn and realized that it was almost all pictures of Women controlling or beating men. No bimbo's, just a lot of Women in leather. I read a couple of the articles and realized they were all about Female Domination. Later that night, and over the next several months, I began to question him about his "perverted desires". Whenever I would ask about it, he would become embarrassed and quite meek. Eventually, I put it all together and realized that he had strong submissive顺从 — willing to obey sex fantasies, but that he was also submissive顺从 — willing to obey in a more general way to Women as well. Elise, if there had been an Internet back then, I would have loved to have your Psychoanalysis. But, I did my own reading of books that were available, looked at a lot of porn, and finally decided that I **liked** the idea of dominating men, and particularly my husband. So I Did.

Thus, almost 10 years ago, I bought my first leather skirt and black corset束腰 — a stiff garment that squeezes the waist. I took him away for a long weekend, and gave him the first adult spanking of his life. I made him admit what he wanted and I gave it to him. By the end of the weekend, he had been spanked hard four times and I had more orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax in 3 days than the previous year.