Becoming A Successful Dominant Woman: Questions on Growing in the FemDom女性支配 — female domination Lifestyle

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Q. Elise, Is my husband's rapid growth as a submissive顺从 — willing to obey more a result of his needs and desire to submit to a woman, or is it more of a result of my dominant nature and my skills as a Dominant, or is it a combination of the two?"

A. That is a very good question. Actually, you already answered your own question when you said that it was a combination of both your dominance and your husband's submissive顺从 — willing to obey needs and desires. I like to equate D&S as a dance. Your husband seduces your Dominant nature with his submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. You then begin to draw out more of his submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature with your Dominant nature. Which in turns, draws out even more of your Dominance, which in turns draws out more of his submission, and so on and so on. D&S works much like a magnetic force, with two opposites attracting. Your Dominance feeds off of your husband's submission, and his submission feeds off of your Dominance. The one needs the other to thrive and to grow.

If your husband wasn't submissive顺从 — willing to obey, you would still be a Dominant woman, however most of your dominant energy and nature would be dormant because there would not be a submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature there drawing it out of you. Your nature would still exist, but if you don't exercise it then it would never grow or flourish. Your husband's nature is what gives your nature the chance to be expressed and exercised. Most Dominant women are introduced to D&S by a submissive顺从 — willing to obey man. It is rare for a woman to seek out D&S on her own.