Becoming A Successful Dominant Woman: Questions on Growing in the FemDom女性支配 — female domination Lifestyle

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If he tries to top you during a scene, he may be pushing your buttons because he wants you to punish him harder. Give him what he wants and then some. If he wants more severe discipline, then give it to him. Most men are wimps and cannot take as much as they think they want. Break out the strap and the cane and he will soon learn to respect your authority.

Deep inside he wants you to win. He is just conflicted by his emotions and he is hoping that you will cause his submissive顺从 — willing to obey desires to win out over his aggressive personality. It will come in time if you stay committed. Don't back down to him and learn what stirs his submission and use it against him. Act dominant and you will be dominant.

Q. My husband has always wanted to be dominated and humiliated in a sexual setting. Over our 22 years of marriage, I have come to terms and "indulged" his sexual fantasies. Initially because I discovered after our first year of marriage that if I did not, the urge was so strong he was sneaking off to see professional mistresses女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner. We have experienced our share of difficulties and have sought help from three different professional therapists over 7 years. Through this we have managed to stay together and raise two wonderful children.