Becoming A Successful Dominant Woman: Questions on Growing in the FemDom女性支配 — female domination Lifestyle

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Regardless which approach I use, my goal is to get him into a submissive顺从 — willing to obey state. Then I bring reconciliation by telling him that I love him. Then I might make him confess his place in our marriage. I will make him tell me how I rule over him and how I have authority over him. Once I see that he is in a submissive顺从 — willing to obey state, only then will I re-visit the argument by making him apologize to me. Again, I do not seek this apology outside of our D&S session or else it might re-kindle the argument.

After he apologizes, I will tie him face down on the bed and now it is time to punish him for his behavior. He is already in a submissive顺从 — willing to obey mood so I will give him a severe whipping or spanking and that is when I let him know how upset he made me and he will feel my wrath. My husband says that he can feel the hurt and anger leaving his body as I discipline him. Afterwards, I will hug him and love on him as we confess our love for each other. It works like a charm.

My advice to you is to do the same. You seem to have it backwards as you said that you feel he needs to pay for his insubordination before he gets the benefit of a submissive顺从 — willing to obey sexual release. I would not give him any kind of sexual release but you need to get him into a submissive顺从 — willing to obey state and reconcile the argument before you punish him for his transgression.