Becoming A Successful Dominant Woman: Questions on Growing in the FemDom女性支配 — female domination Lifestyle

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A. The advantage of being the Dominant wife is that you are in charge. You need to sit your husband down and tell him in no uncertain terms that you call the shots and that he has no say. I would suggest dressing up in an outfit that you know stirs his submission and administering a spanking to him before you explain the rules to him. You need to tell him that if he wants you to dominate him, then he needs to act submissive顺从 — willing to obey. Put the ball squarely in his court.

Tell him that you do not appreciate him putting pressure on you. Make it clear to him that if he wants to be dominated, then he must submit to you all of the time and he must accept your rules. He must be humble and meek around you. If he wants D&S, then he must obey you both in and out of the bedroom. Don't let him top you from below. Be firm with him. You are the Dominant wife and you set the rules.

You have children to attend to so you only have so much time for D&S. Set aside some time each week to play with your husband and during that time, discipline him in the way he desires but as you discipline him, tell him that he must help you with the chores and with the child rearing. If he doesn't, than no more D&S inside the bedroom until he gets with the program. Use his kinky desires as a weapon against him. His submissive顺从 — willing to obey desires are his weakness. Use it to get him to obey you. You have the power and you hold all the cards. Be firm with him and expect his obedience.