Becoming A Successful Dominant Woman: Questions on Growing in the FemDom女性支配 — female domination Lifestyle

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Relax and make him orally service you sexually. Learn to enjoy sex. Experiment with things until you find what brings YOU pleasure. Female Domination is about your husband serving you. It is about you getting YOUR needs met. This lifestyle is about the woman, not the man. The man will be fulfilled and satisfied only if the woman is fulfilled and satisfied. Your husband is being selfish and he has it backwards. He is toping you from below. Seize the reins of the marriage, be firm with him but also have fun.

It sounds like you need this lifestyle to save your marriage. Put the ball in his court. No obey than no play. The good news for him is that more you play, the more he will be eager to obey. Stir a man's submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature and keep him aroused and frustrated. Maybe he realizes this about himself and that is why he is telling you that he wants to be denied. Trust me, men are easier to control when they are denied. So, give him what he wants in that regard. Start to view sex as being for your pleasure. Keep him aroused and excited but then channel his sexual energy into serving you outside of the bedroom. You need his servitude more outside of the bedroom at this point in your life. D&S provides you the tools to make that happen.