Becoming A Successful Dominant Woman: Questions on Growing in the FemDom女性支配 — female domination Lifestyle

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Unfortunately, many women just see the leather outfits, the whips, and the techniques that we use to get our men into that magical state of deep submission, and they think that our lifestyle is "strange" or "bizarre". If they would only look past the tools that we use and the techniques that we utilize, and if they would instead focus on the results that they bring, then I believe that most women would openly embrace this lifestyle. Women are searching for the kind of intimacy and the kind of relationship that you and your husband share. If they would only understand that most men need to be dominated, disciplined, and controlled by a woman, in order to be at peace within themselves, then I am convinced the majority of women would assume their proper place, which is to be the dominant wife and the dominant woman.

Q. Elise, my husband and I really love the F/D lifestyle. However, we live in a small town where everyone knows each other. My biggest concern is that people will discover what we are into and think us to be weird, when in fact we are as normal of a couple that you will find. Do you have any suggestions?

A. Why do you want to be normal? Define normal for me. If it means that you are going to act and behave like a male dominant society says that you must, then don't be normal. "Observe the masses, then do the opposite." All great men and women who have changed society were never considered normal.