Becoming A Successful submissive顺从 — willing to obey male: Questions about growing as a submissive顺从 — willing to obey in a FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship

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Q. Ms Sutton, You are the best there is on this subject, thank you for being there. My wife and I have played around with this subject for the 20 plus years we have been married. There are three ideas that hold us back from really being fulfilled.

One, I am now 48 and want to be submissive顺从 — willing to obey to my wife more then even, but feel like it is not something a 48 year old should be doing.

Two, My wife feels that I should be the perfect husband simply out of love for her. Why should she have to spank me to get me to behave?

Three, she knows how much her dominate side excites me. She feels that I don't get excited for her, but what she represents.

What do you think and what should I say to her? Thank you for your site and your insight, you are the best!!!

A. Thanks for the kind words about my site. To answer your three concerns:

1) It has been my observation that the older a man gets, the stronger his submissive顺从 — willing to obey desires become. Forty-eight is young so why shouldn't you explore this in its fullest? If not now, when? Also, the older a woman becomes the more she is open to this lifestyle. Domination comes with wisdom and experience for women.

2) You should be the perfect husband to her out of love. Even if she never embraces this lifestyle to the level that you would like, you should still serve her and treat her like a Queen. Submission is a selfless servitude and it comes from the heart. Your submission will seduce her dominance.