Becoming A Successful submissive顺从 — willing to obey male: Questions about growing as a submissive顺从 — willing to obey in a FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship

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At a restaurant I just love it when the waiter brings the check to the Woman I'm with. I enjoy watching TV shows with Women as the heroines and men as the followers. And I love male bashing jokes. Both sides of me believe that women are quickly seizing power; but only one side is cheering women on. The two sides of me are so closely balanced that I'm paralyzed when I try to bring them together. As a result, I have trouble following your advice in "How to Introduce your Wife or Girlfriend to Female Domination." I'm so used to being independent and assertive when I'm with my wife that I find it hard to express my submissive顺从 — willing to obey side.

Perhaps you could address this as I am sure that other men have this same problem and could benefit from your wisdom. Let me just say in closing that I love EVERYTHING you say about Female supremacy and Female superiority. It just makes so much SENSE--but mainly just to one side of me. It seems that: "I'm just sitting on a fence".

A. You are correct in that many men do struggle within themselves between their masculinity and their desire to submit to women. That is why some men like to keep those two areas of their natures separate by visiting Pro Doms on a regular basis while they keep that side of their personality hidden from their wife. That may work for the short term but it will never be as fulfilling as submitting to a woman within an actual relationship.