Becoming A Successful submissive顺从 — willing to obey male: Questions about growing as a submissive顺从 — willing to obey in a FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship

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Life consists of decisions and fence sitting only leads to stress and uncertainty. Having a dual nature is known as being double minded and it is difficult to grow in life when you are double minded. The two minds will always be in conflict with each other and you will have many internal struggles. Double mindedness causes a person to make decisions only half way and thus goals and accomplishment are never fully achieved. You cannot satisfy both warring factions within your personality. You need to make a decision and commit to that decision. If you want to experience true submission to a woman, then lay aside your male pride and humble yourself by submitting to your wife. Once she begins to take charge, allow her. It will not be easy at times but that is where your commitment to your wife and this lifestyle comes in. You have a freewill and you are free to be difficult and macho toward your wife but that will never bring you submissive顺从 — willing to obey fulfillment.

As your submissive顺从 — willing to obey desires grow, allow them to overtake your male pride and male ego. Submission is a desire but it is also a decision. Your human will decides which force within you will win. The more you submit to women, the stronger that desire to submit to women will grow and thus it will become easier to submit.