Becoming A Successful submissive顺从 — willing to obey male: Questions about growing as a submissive顺从 — willing to obey in a FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship

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Q. Ms Sutton, thank you for your web site and your psychoanalysis procedure. It has helped me out a lot. I have really been able to get in touch with my submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature and I now understand why I am the way I am. The only problem I have is that my wife isn't a very skilled Dominant. I feel that I could go to higher places of submission if she would only grow more as a dominant. What should I do?

A. First of all you should be punished for speaking negatively about your superior wife. You should focus more on how you can improve as a submissive顺从 — willing to obey, rather than worrying about how good of a dominant that she is. Just the fact that she is a woman makes her superior to you. You should worship崇拜侍奉 — adoring service her and adore her every day.

It is acceptable for you to encourage her to grow in knowledge and skill as a Dominant by recommending books, literature, or web sites that she can read. However, you had better never criticize her or tell her that she isn't a good enough Dom. Always encourage her to grow as a Dominant and the best way to do this is to double your efforts in submitting to her. Also, make sure that you count your blessings for having her every day.