Becoming A Successful submissive顺从 — willing to obey male: Questions about growing as a submissive顺从 — willing to obey in a FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship

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Where should the line be drawn between fantasy and reality? Don't get me wrong, I am extremely lucky. How can I give her more control without her thinking I'm forcing it on her? Is this something you encounter with other men? I understand that you get bombarded with e-mails. I would really appreciate any response or advice you could offer. Thanks so much for your time and commitment to this subject.

A. Maybe you are not showing your wife the benefits to this lifestyle as far as she is concerned. When she does wear leather and play with you, how do you treat her afterwards? Do you double your efforts in serving her outside of the bedroom? Do you do extra chores? Do you offer to give her foot rubs or body massages按摩 — rubbing the body to ease it, with no expectations for sex?

It is easy for a man to say that he loves his wife but if you spend all of your time fantasizing about your wife in leather, then are you really focusing on her needs? Now it is Ok to visualize her in leather and to recall how sexy and dominant she was during your last session with her. However, use that image and your sexual excitement as motivation to serve her outside of the bedroom. Learn to channel that sexual and submissive顺从 — willing to obey energy into doing things that are pleasing to her.