Becoming A Successful submissive顺从 — willing to obey male: Questions about growing as a submissive顺从 — willing to obey in a FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship

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A. I am pleased to hear that you had the courage to open up to your girlfriend about your submissive顺从 — willing to obey desires. I am sure that once she embraces this lifestyle, she will love it. However, no woman wants a man to be a total doormat. You need to bring the proper balance to your relationship. Fantasies do not always translate to reality. Your girlfriend is superior and you should always treat her as such and you should always strive to obey her and to serve her. But she also needs a friend and a life partner. A relationship must be about more than D&S. Don't sacrifice the things that she loves about you for D&S. D&S will enhance your relationship but it can not be the foundation of your relationship.

She will need a life partner that she can share her goals and dreams with. She will need a friend that she can share her hobbies and interests with. Yes, a superior woman call the shots. Yes, a dominant woman loves to don leather and engage in D&S. Yes, your girlfriend needs to be worshipped and served by you. However, she also needs stimulating conversation, a dinner partner, someone to have fun with, and someone to share life with.

So just be yourself and allow the man that she fell in love with to also be the man that is now submitting to her. Be her friend, partner, lover, and slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience. A woman needs all of this in a man.