Real Life Stories - Female Domination and Untraditional Marriages

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What I would recommend you do is that you begin to worship崇拜侍奉 — adoring service your wife as your Queen. I know you may be afraid of her and you may not feel that she is worthy of your devotion based on how she has been treating you. However, she still is your wife and she represents the female gender to you. When you worship崇拜侍奉 — adoring service her and serve her, you are worshipping and serving all women. So double your efforts in making her happy. Focus on her needs. Bring her flowers and buy her a special gift. Tell her that you love her and that she is your Queen. Show her affection and love and she will in return develop more loving feelings toward you. She will not need to abuse you if she views you as her adoring submissive顺从 — willing to obey husband.

Her abusive behavior may be rooted in fear. She may fear that her younger man may leave her for a younger woman. I agree that you should not be staring at other women. This only feeds her insecurity. Make her feel special and loved and she will treat you better. She will probably still discipline you and dominate you severely at times but that goes with the territory of being a submissive顺从 — willing to obey husband. She has dominant desires that she needs to express and practice. However, if you treat her like the special woman that she is and thus alleviate any fears that she may have about losing you to a younger woman, I am sure that she will treat you better.