Breaking The Male Ego: Questions About Verbal Humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose

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A. I am so glad that you feel free and liberated. If you can't let your hair down around your husband, than whom can you be free around? As far as the language goes, you just need to overcome your inhibitions. I like to talk erotic and sexy around my husband when playing with him. Words like penis阴茎 — the male sex organ, vagina, and intercourse sound too clinical. I am not teaching a biology class, for heaven's sake. I am having intense sex. I use words like cock阴茎 — the penis, pussy阴部 — the vulva, and fucking because these words are erotic, sexy, and fun.

Now please don't get me wrong. I never use foul or vulgar language in my everyday life. I am a superior female and I am a lady. I don't appreciate people using obscene language around me, and I certainly don't use it around them. There is a time and a place for everything. I don't even tell off color jokes when I am around other people.

I don't use obscene language around my husband during our everyday living, but when we "play", I feel free to talk very "dirty". This turns us both on. So don't feel guilty about using erotic and "dirty" language during your playtime. It will really spice things up. Of course, if you just can't bring yourself to do it, than don't worry about it. As long as you feel free, uninhibited, and liberated, that is what matters the most.