Questions on How To Introduce the Female Domination Lifestyle To A Wife or Girlfriend

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Q. Ms Sutton, I am dating a woman that is a natural dominant. I have slowly introduced her to this lifestyle, and she has taken to it pretty well. I started out by treating her like a lady. You know, holding doors open for her, doing chores for her, etc. Than I began to give her back and foot rubs. I even sucked on her toes with my mouth when I rubbed her feet. Next, when we have sex I always pull her on top and I am always orally servicing her. I am constantly telling her that she is superior to men and that I love to serve her.

Now I want to go to the next step. I want to introduce her to some advance D&S stuff. I want her to wear leather and I want her to spank and discipline me. However, I am afraid that she will reject it and thus reject me. How would you recommend that I introduce some of the more advance stuff to her?

A. It sounds like you are doing a great job so far. Your approach is the best approach for a man who is trying to introduce this lifestyle to a woman. You have to crawl before you can run. By taking small steps, you are allowing her dominant nature to slowly come forth. Now I hope that you are planning to marry her, since you are having sex with her. To introduce her to more advance stuff, I would recommend the following.