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Questions on How To Introduce the Female Domination Lifestyle To A Wife or Girlfriend

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I have mentioned to her about making our marriage a 24/7全天 — all day and every day FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship but she is dead set against that. She says we have a 50/50 marriage that is based on love and she does not want to jeopardize that all in the name of one of my fantasies. She is more than willing to continue to play "some" D&S games in the bedroom but when I bring up my strong submissive顺从 — willing to obey desires to her, she tells me that I need to live in the real world.

Ms Sutton, I even showed her your site one time but she did not get past the words "Female Superiority" when she refused to read on. She says that she could never see herself as superior to me and she lectured me on how these sites are not real but they only play to men's sexual fantasies.

That is why I am so conflicted. I have a great wife who is open enough to experiment with some light forms of D&S in the bedroom. But there is this part of me that has a hunger to be totally ruled by a woman. To me it is neither a game nor a fantasy. It is a very intense and strong desire that does not go away. I've tried to ignore it and to suppress it most of my life but it seems to be getting stronger. I love my wife and do not want to harm my healthy marriage by pressing my wife too hard. What should I do? Your profile says that you counsel men like myself. Any advice?