A submissive顺从 — willing to obey husband's Journal

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When I am in the chamber, I experience an intense sexual arousal. Ashley keeps me denied most of the time and she regulates my orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax. So when I am in the chamber, I am almost always erect. My mind and my soul are floating, thinking about Ashley. She may not be there with me in body, but she is never out of my mind. She is there dominating me as she has complete control over all my senses. I am at her mercy.

When Ashley shared with Ms Sutton our story, Ms Sutton shared some valuable insight about why I like the deprivation chamber. Although we have never met her, it was as if she knew me better than I knew myself. Ms Sutton wrote:

The fact that your husband has such a strong desire to be in bondage捆绑 — being tied or restrained is what makes your little chamber so effective. The key is that he enjoys the experience as it does stimulate submissive顺从 — willing to obey triggers within his psyche, which transfers him to subspace. This would not work for a man who is not wired like your husband. A lot of men enjoy being placed in bondage捆绑 — being tied or restrained but not all men will respond favorably to being locked up in a small room for hours on end. D&S activities like deprivation play must be done safely and sanely.