Real Stories - Jan/Feb 2006

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5. Sexual service. I always have to serve her with my tongue. Usually I do this after Queening坐脸 — sitting on a partner's face or after I have shaved her legs.

I know, this life-style only works if there is love and confidence from and each other. I’m angry about myself when I leave the path of submission and start to be as I’ve been before. I love my wife and when I’m submissive顺从 — willing to obey I can express it much better.

Happy New year!

Elise’s Response:

Joe, you are a blessed man if your wife is open-minded enough to incorporate what you have listed. That is wonderful.

I like your attitude and your eagerness to improve for your wife. That should be the heart of every submissive顺从 — willing to obey male and every husband. You are wise to realize that you best express your love and your passion for your wife when you are in the submissive顺从 — willing to obey role. This is true with all men. Most men when they are courting a woman are in a submissive顺从 — willing to obey posture and they express their feelings of love and devotion. But as a relationship is built, men tend to drift away from that and women cannot understand why the husband no longer acts romantic. The submissive顺从 — willing to obey role makes you romantic.

You will make mistakes and you will develop negative male attitudes at times, but when this happens, apologize to your wife, beg her forgiveness and then humble yourself before her. This will help you to recapture that submissive顺从 — willing to obey frame of mind.

Continue to strive for excellence in your service of her and you will have a successful and happy marriage. Best wishes.