Real Stories - May/June 2007

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Prior to each of our vacations Akira would turn cold on me. She would complain about our sex play, in particular my inability to properly arouse her. She would have an occasional orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax from my oral sex. Otherwise, she said she felt more obligated than anything else. She was weary of my selfishness during sex and what she thought was my only attention to my own orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax.

We chatted over the internet every day and had fallen deeply in love. Despite our sexual problems, Akira and I have gotten so close.

Akira works for a American based company. About a year ago Akira was able to transfer her job to California. I work from a home based office so was able to join her in California. We have an apartment in a suburb north of Los Angeles.

It was great to be with her all the time. Our love kept growing. But, the sex was still difficult. It was becoming infrequent as I knew it was just a burden to her. I really did not know what to do. I read articles on techniques and methods. I tried my best to concentrate on pleasing her. Nothing seemed to help. I know she was so frustrated. So was I. Our emotional love was great, but the physical love was terrible.

I kept searching the internet looking for a solution. I came across some websites (not yours) in which some men had taken to wear chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm devices to please their wives or girl friends. I have always had a submissive顺从 — willing to obey streak so I read further.