Real Stories - May/June 2008

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From Debbie B:

Hi Elise! I wanted to thank you for your marvelous website. I also wanted to share how I dominate my husband. To get right to the sine qua non, I work my hubby to death, well not literally because hard work is good for a man, but I have become his taskmistress and much to his chagrin, I am creative and cruel.

My husband introduced me to Femdom女性支配 — female domination and he showed me your site and gave me your book. To be honest, I was not interested in spanking him or wearing fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing outfits for him. I also wasn’t all that interested in being pampered by him. I am not that kind of woman and I can bathe myself and dress myself. However, when I read your book, the one area that interested me was having the husband do the housework. That was my dominant trigger.

I went to my husband and told him that I would dominate him but it would be through him doing chores and housework. I know he gets off on the concept of cruel women, therefore I explained to him that I would have no problem being cruel. In fact, I would delight in it. Nonetheless, I let him know that I would not be whipping him or spanking him and I had no interest in S&M. When he inquired as to what I would use to punish him, I just smiled and told him “my imagination.”