Real Stories - May/June 2008

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I still want to explore female domination with the right man but I don’t think I will be attending any more groups.

Elise’s Response:

Beth, there is a reason the BDSM motto is “Safe, Sane and Consensual”. You have to keep your head clear and your feet planted firmly in reality or else you can get carried away. All of these women were looking at Darlene as their leader but was Darlene educated in the safe way to conduct a D&S session? Just because she said she was experienced, that didn’t mean she understood “Safe, Sane and Consensual”.

I hear more and more stories, and many from reliable sources, of FemDom女性支配 — female domination groups that do not adhere to proper safety techniques. I think it is marvelous that groups of women, young and old, are starting FemDom女性支配 — female domination groups where the women are always dominant and the men submissive顺从 — willing to obey. However, it is vitally important that any group that is going to engage in such intense activities be educated on how to engage in safe and sane domination.