Real Stories - May/June 2008

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Beth, don’t let this bad experience sway you away from female domination. Perhaps you should place a personal ad on my site as you search for that special submissive顺从 — willing to obey man you can learn with. Or maybe you should just seek out a man who displays submissive顺从 — willing to obey qualities and build a relationship with him before you introduce D&S into the relationship. Date a man that treats you like a Queen and who shows a desire to submit to you in social settings. Like you said, there are countless men out there that are looking for a dominant woman. It shouldn’t be too hard to find one but unless you want to waste a lot of time, you would be wise to focus on the friendship and the relationship before you explore the D&S with a potential partner.

But if you really want to learn about D&S and you don’t feel like waiting, I would recommend that you join a more established group like ClubFEM, if there is one within driving distance. If not, perhaps you could contact a professional Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman to see if she is willing to train a novice. I got my start by frequenting a pansexual BDSM group and working part-time with a Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman when her clients wanted a two Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner session. I do wish you the very best!

From Lorraine L:

Dear Elise; I read all I could from your site and you certainly have done a fantastic job. Just a brief background on myself.