Real Stories - May/June 2008

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I consider myself very attractive and I do tease him a lot. I have a 32 hour a week position in an office where I get much attention because I can dress hot and sexy but not trashy like you say. I get to meet nice successful men and I can tell they're very appreciative of that. My husband has some awareness about this, gets a little jealous, but he knows there's not much he can do about it because I'm definitely not going to start dressing dowdy. Besides, I won't be having sex (intercourse) with any of them. I just want to bring our relationship and marriage up a few notches to where I can take total control of him, call all the shots and get him to do most of the work at home even though he does have a pretty good job himself.

Also, I don't want him questioning me on my personal life or on decisions I make and yet I want to know all of his. I really do want to be pampered by him like you say on your site and discipline him anyway I want so that I can always get my own way no matter the situation or circumstance.

I really do feel I need to take 100% charge now in order to be as happy as I want to be. If I can pull this off right, he'll be more than thrilled too. I have punished him some and he takes it like a good slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience. I've squeezed his testicles hard a lot of times and slapped his face but we are in love and I want our marriage to last and so does he.

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