Real Stories - Predominant 2011, Issue 3

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From Tess C:

Dear Elise, I have been reading your column over the years and learn quite a bit. In fact, that's how I got my husband, Allen, into chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm. We have been married for 7 years and we’re in our late 30s. Our D/s experience has evolved from simple bedroom bondage捆绑 — being tied or restrained at the beginning to now nearly a 24/7全天 — all day and every day lifestyle (we do not live the lifestyle in public). Enforced chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm is the best tool for submission in my book, and I wanted to briefly share with you how it has benefitted me, but also had a related question.

Allen wears the CB6000. I get a high from the power of that device. About 6 months ago, I started a strict and detailed routine that Allen has to follow to my satisfaction, just to be eligible for any chance at pleasure. First, he has only two chances to cum--the 5th and the 20th of the month. It's like a "pay day", except I do not let him know if he will actually cum until the time comes (no pun intended!). He is required to do all the chores assigned, not disobey me, follow all rules and sexually satisfy me. On the day in which he may be permitted to cum, I usually keep him bound but I remove the CB6000.