Real Stories - March 2005

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Female sadism can be safely explored within a loving D&S relationship and it sounds like your husband enjoys this type of intense play. Your creativity is impressive and your husband is lucky to be married to a creative woman who puts so much time and thought into your D&S sessions.

Normally I would say that men would be lined up to take his place but hearing about the tacks in the penis阴茎 — the male sex organ and the Ben-Gay on the balls and the slapping of his balls with a ruler, perhaps not. Lots of men will get excited reading about what you do to your husband but most men would not enjoy such intense play unless they harbored some true masochism within their submissive顺从 — willing to obey natures. I know this to be true because I have had men beg me to do certain sadistic acts on them only to scream like a big baby and use their safe word安全词 — a word that means stop right away once that fantasy became a reality. That is why female sadism and male masochism must be explored in small steps. I am sure you and your husband did not get into playing these intense games overnight. It takes experimentation, chemistry and communication to build up to such intense D&S sessions. Thanks again for sharing your story and take care!

From Derek V:

Dear Ms Elise, I am a happily married man who is totally pussy阴部 — the vulva-whipped by my domineering wife. We read your site each month and my wife wanted me to share about our courtship and marriage. I am Caucasian and my wife is African American. She is my Ebony Goddess女神 — a woman treated as divine.