Real Stories - September/October 2007

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You did not pursue another session with this young woman because your body reminded you that it would not be a fun experience. Yet once enough time elapsed and the memory of the pain was gone, that which was left was the sexual excitement that you did indeed experience intense female sadism. Thus you sought her out again. Fortunately for you, she was no longer in the business.

The moral of your story to other males is that you should never session with a professional Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner who is not reputable. And you should never session with a Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner without clearly defined safe words安全词 — a word that means stop and safe signals. That was your fault and perhaps she was just too new and too inexperienced to know any better. She may have thought she was giving you what you wanted and that you enjoyed the entire session.

One thing is for certain, the intensity of the session opened up your submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature to new levels. Safe words安全词 — a word that means stop are a must but the problem with safe words安全词 — a word that means stop is that most subs顺从者 — a submissive person use them right before they are about to achieve a new level. An experienced Dom can sense when she can move the bar just a little more so that the sub顺从者 — a submissive person can achieve that new level. The novice Dom has yet to learn how to read a man’s submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature, thus she needs to respect the safe word安全词 — a word that means stop. Chemistry comes from relationship and only a man who sessions with the same Dom over many sessions can build that kind of trust and chemistry. Thanks for sharing your experience and take care.

From John S: