Real Stories - September/October 2007

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Manal obviously has the potential to become a figure of loving female authority. However she seems reticent to take things a stage further and become the instigator of female control. She is dominating me, but mainly because I want her to.

Do you have any advice on how Manal might be encouraged further? I would be so appreciative.

Elise’s Response:

First off, I am not sure which book you read because I have never worked as a prostitute and I certainly did not write about it in my book. Perhaps you and your wife confuse professional Domination with prostitution. I did work with a professional Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman many years ago whenever one of her clients requested to be dominated by two women. She was a professional Dominant but I was a lifestyle Dominant. Whenever I did professional sessions with her I can assure you that no sexual contact was involved. Domination is not prostitution. You might want to explain this to your wife as it may help her to embrace my book and overcome some of her reservations.

Secondly, it seems to me that your lovely wife has been willing to experiment with you when it comes to your fetishes恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing and FemDom女性支配 — female domination desires. You need to realize how fortunate you are. Not many women would be as opened minded as your wife has been, especially with your Adult Baby fantasies. A lot of women have a real problem with that one, so count yourself blessed that your wife loves you enough to try to understand your sexual needs.