Real Stories - September/October 2007

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Ms Sutton, I do not want to lose this wonderful FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship. My wife says this point is not negotiable, that either I redeem myself in front of the other Mistresses女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner or I will be banned from the group, and worse my wife will not dominate me in the bedroom. I am thinking about giving in to her but I must be honest and confess that it makes my skin crawl just the thought of degrading myself with another submissive顺从 — willing to obey male. I also worry that if I give in to this hard limit and submit to my wife in this area that the Mistresses女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner of the group will push us deeper and require that we do other sexual acts with each other for their entertainment. This is my dilemma.

Elise’s Response:

I have written about this in other Q&A and Real Story entries, and my position is that the dominant female must always be mindful of her submissive顺从 — willing to obey male’s limits. One woman shared her story how forcing her husband to engage in bi-sexual acts against his will caused him serious psychological problems. Therefore, I cannot stress enough the importance of discussing potential scenes and D&S play prior to engaging in them. Perhaps the two women who started this activity at your group knew ahead of time that their husbands would submit to it because it was discussed at a previous time.