Real Stories - September/October 2008

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It is also entirely possible that they are intellectually compatible, regardless of the age difference. Your wife made the observation that he was kind of a geek, which means he might be very intelligent and gifted. Perhaps Cheri was tired of dating the macho male types from the gym who didn’t know how to treat a lady. Therefore she is attracted to a sweet man who is smart and kind. It is possible that FemDom女性支配 — female domination is only one of their common interests. It is also possible that the enforced virginity is his fantasy as well as her fantasy. That does not mean it will remain a reality forever.

My position is that you just never know and you cannot judge a couple from what you see at BDSM or FemDom女性支配 — female domination events. Having said that, I do agree that young people, both men and women, need not rush into long-term D&S relationships. What is most important is to find a partner where compatibility encompasses more than just D&S. However, if you meet that special someone, no matter the age difference, it would be foolish not to pursue it if there is intellectual, spiritual, and social compatibility. Again, each relationship is unique and what works for one couple may not work for another.

The great news is that you and your wife have that compatibility and now you have added female domination to the relationship which has solidified it. I have always said that FemDom女性支配 — female domination should not be the foundation of a relationship but rather the cement that solidifies the relationship. Best wishes!

From Tiffany R: