Real Stories - September/October 2008

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We look forward to each issue of Predominant. If you are looking for suggestions, more stories about strippers and escorts would be great. I never felt more dominant than when I worked at the club, seeing how easily a man will surrender his money for the right to see and touch my body. I consider that to be power. Best regards.

Elise’s response:

Tiffany, you just fulfilled your own request for more stories about strippers, as I am posting your story in Predominant. I do not discount the FemDom女性支配 — female domination elements of the strip club experience. Camille Paglia wrote about this in her article about strip clubs “Woman as Goddess女神 — a woman treated as divine”.

However, it sounds to me like you were submissive顺从 — willing to obey to some men and dominant with others. A dominant woman respects her body therefore allowing unfamiliar men to climax on your body does seem rather degrading to me. Granted, it did set the stage for humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose play with your boyfriend (the tongue bath of humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose does sound like fun) but I don’t see how a woman could not experience her own form of humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose and submission when allowing men to degrade you like that in the dark corner of the club.

Most strippers I have talked to have told me that they like to work at these establishments because they like to dance and they like to tease men with their bodies, but they never go beyond a lap dance. There are plenty of strippers who view what they do as dominating men, but these ladies would never engage in sexual activities with their clients.