Real Stories - September/October 2010

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I am not gay. People do not understand the transgender lifestyle. It has noting to do with homosexuality. I ended my relationship with Sandra but I continue to live as a woman. Sexually I desire women but I am most comfortable being a woman. I am still attracted to dominant women as they seem the most open-minded to relationships with cross-dressers and transgenders.

I am employed by an agency of the U.S Gov't. I'm accepted by all the employees as a woman because that's what I am now (a stealthy woman). I share this story because I believe it's essential that my experience be shared with others because few people know the psychological issues a forced feminized man deals with. Thank you for allowing me this forum.

Elise’s Response:

Gresandra, it is my privilege to give you a forum where you can openly share your story. Men who are not cross-dressers do have a tendency to presume that there is a connection between your lifestyle and homosexuality. Surprisingly, some women, even dominant women, assume that it is only natural for a feminized male to engage in homosexual activities. Of course these presumptions are totally false as most cross-dressers, sissies, and feminized males desire to be sexually dominated by women, and many of these males are totally opposed to any interactions with other men.