Real Stories - November/December 2006

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From Kenneth I:

Dear Miss Sutton, I am writing to you for your experienced views and advice on the current relationship I am in. I am a complete novice in the lifestyle you are advocating and I can only find the words "female dominant" to describe the woman I am with.

First of all, I am nearly 15 years younger than the woman I am seeing, who is 38 years of age. The truth is I feel lucky to have her. She is far more intelligent than I am and has a very successful career whereas I am merely starting out after college.

In part these questions arise because of the highly unusual (in my 7 years of dating experience) way in which she conducts herself with me. Firstly before we started this relationship, she made it clear that she had a trusted lover whom she is seeing regularly for sex. The only assurance she gave me was that he was the only lover she was seeing and that he was healthy and clean. Maybe it was pure infatuation or lust but I just wanted to be with her no matter what. I suppose this already established our positions in the relationship. In the 6 months that we have been together, we have not had any sex. Although she permits intimacy but it revolves strictly around me providing her with oral sex. I will not pretend to say I do not enjoy this but I just do not know what to make of the feelings and pent up emotions after such intimate sessions. My whole body just burns with desire and I hear nothing but her voice in my head. I keep thinking how beautiful she is.