Real Stories - November/December 2007

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Your love for each other is indeed the most important element of your evolution as a couple. While many couples cool off sexually when they’ve been married for nine years, you and your wife are heating up. I appreciate your sincere comments about the role my site and my book played in your wife’s sexual growth, but the truth of the matter is this dynamo of a woman was inside her all the time. She just needed validation that it is Ok for a woman to be sexual and aggressive with her husband.

You say you are perplexed as to why she has embraced the strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness? It is obvious to me, based on talking with other women who love to don the strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness, that the role-reversal of the woman being the fucker and the man being the receiver has personal and sociological significance to her as a woman. She no doubt had some resentment in the manner that you’ve treated her, and all women for that matter. You probably didn’t notice it because you were just the product of your upbringing. But she didn’t like your masculine ways and the truth be told, she probably didn’t care for some of your sexual fantasies. They probably were demeaning to her as a woman. She went along because she wanted to please you, and she resented herself for doing so.