Real Stories - July 2005

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Christina, no one knows what the future holds as your boyfriend has a freewill. However, it has been my experience that a man who enjoys being submissive顺从 — willing to obey prior to marriage, will desire to be taken even deeper into submission once he is married. There are some FemDom女性支配 — female domination dynamics that will be more powerful after you are married due to the legalities and permanent status of marriage. The mind games and the power dynamics take on a new intensity within the marriage relationship.

The male desire for female domination grows stronger as a man matures and ages. Men lose testosterone as they age and I believe that makes for less internal conflict between the male ego and the male submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. If he enjoys being dominated now, he will always enjoy being dominated. Your challenge is to keep it challenging for him. A man needs to experience new levels of submission, as you will need to experience new levels in your dominance. What you do now in a D&S setting should always be enjoyable but just as anything in life it can become mundane and routine if you do not seek growth. You should always be willing to experiment with new techniques and new ideas.