Real Stories - July 2005

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Then I didn’t push it for a while. About a week after returning home, after we had intercourse, I casually said he should wear the cage overnight to see how he got on. He was reluctant at first but eventually he put it on as he could see I was keen. That night he was restless and early in the morning I heard him get up and go to the bathroom and he came back without it on. Next morning he said he didn’t think it would work. I pointed out that the instructions said it was important to get used to it, and that night I made him try again. He succeeded in keeping it on all night and I released him in the morning. Over the next few days things settled down and he was able to sleep through eventually. At this stage he was only wearing it at nights but then I decided he should wear it daytime as well. Again he was reluctant but went along with me.

I think what helped was that our sex life was better than ever. I don’t think I had ever enjoyed myself so much and Jim was also very happy – he had he admitted never had so much sex in his life. No longer did he let me go to bed by myself ever. He was up there with me each night. But I knew this was likely to be a phase and things would need to be shaken up now and then to avoid routine and staleness. I was really enjoying things but I had got a taste and wanted greater control. So I experimented with keeping him locked for a couple of days at a time.